The Vanishing Married Household?

Written by: Jonathan Vespa

Did you know that in 1970 married couples with children made up 40 percent of American households? Today, they comprise just 20 percent (see figure). 

 What looks like a dramatic drop in married households may be more of a change in when, and in what order, adults experience certain life events. In other words, a family postponed is not necessarily a family forgone.

Line graph showing changes in U.S. Households by type

 During the 1970s, younger baby boomers were still children living at home. Because boomers were the largest generation in U.S. history, they left a lasting footprint on the makeup of households and family life.

 As those children grew up and moved out, we saw an increase in people living alone while also seeing a decline in households with married parents. Over the last 40 years, the share of adults living alone grew by a third for women. It more than doubled for men.

 These trends also mirror the rising age at marriage, which has climbed by 5 years for men and women since 1970. Whereas previous generations may have lived at home until they married in their early 20s, not only are adults getting married at an older age but they now are often living on their own before tying the knot.  

 Childbearing is an important part of the equation too. Just as adults are waiting longer to marry, they are also delaying having children. The average age when women give birth to their first child has risen from 21 to 25 since 1970. This helps explain why the share of households made up of married parents has fallen so dramatically while that of married couples without children has not.

 To find out more about the composition of modern American families, check out a new report released today, “America’s Families and Living Arrangements: 2012.”

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6 Responses to The Vanishing Married Household?

  1. Bluebeard says:

    Which line includes the individuals with children? Co-habitating couples with children?

  2. rizzle says:

    this graph makes no sense unless the total population is dropping significantly. The numbers don’t add up.

  3. Brent says:

    If the Y-axis is percent, then there is data missing. Where are the lost households? If one declines, then another should increase.

  4. Jonathan Vespa says:

    Cohabiting couples aren’t in this graph, but you can find them in the report. For example, Table 5 compares cohabiting family groups with one-parent and married family groups (p. 14 of the report).

    The best estimates for cohabiting couples only go back to 1996. You can find them here:

    There are about 7.8 million couples who live together without being married, and about 4 percent of all children under 18 live with parents who are cohabiting.

  5. Jonathan Vespa says:

    Not all categories are shown in the graphic and so that is why they don’t add to 100%.

    You can find all the categories in Figure 1 in the report (p. 5).

    The two missing ones are nonfamily households (such as roommates, boarders) and other family households (such as cohabiting and single parents).

  6. Carol Owens says:

    I think it’s interesting that marriage appears to be declining in America. There was a time when almost everyone got married, but nowadays attitudes and cultural expectations are different. As Carol Owens details there are things couples can do to help them remain married when they are experiencing difficulties in the relationship.

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